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Lishoo
08-02-2010, 07:28 PM
How to attract others, or how to make urself people like you

EVERYONE IN THE WORLD WANT TO BE LOOK ATTRACTIVE,AND WANT THAT EVERYONE LIKE HIM/HER. SO HERE ARE SOME POITS TO MAKE YOUR PERSONALITY GOOD AND ATTRACTIVE.

1. Try to listen others:
The first rule of this is to listen others, means you must make yourself to listen other people's point of view. For example if you are in some party and there you are having talk with someone who is a player of golf sports, so when he starts talk with you about golf sports, if you know about golf then you also discuss with him positive, and if you do not know about golf then you should listen him carefully and behave like that you are giveing attention to him, like this way the other person will feel happy that you are giving him attention and respect so he must also think good about you.

2. Selection of Dress
The second thing is selection of your dress, you must select the dress which is the fashion or trend of the period, and environment, means if mostly people are wearing jeans and shirt then you also must wear that. And also chose the color which can suit your skin color and body. Becuase suitable dress have much importance for personality. I do not mean that dress shoudl also expensive, I just mean clean and suitable.and according to the trend.

3. Soft language and speech style
The 3rd one is soft speak and language, You must speak light and use a good language to say anything. Because people always like to listen soft speech.and one thing which is most important is that "Think before you speak" and whatever you want to say you must have a good knowledge and grip about that matter, for example if you want to speak about computer technology then you must have knowledge about that topic.


4. Give respect to others
Everyone want that he must be given respect from other people, friends and family, So if you also want this then you must first give respect to your friends and other people whom you meet.


These all things make the personality attractive and people like you. I do not mean beautiful, I mean attractive.

PROUD TO BE MUSLIM AND PAKISTANI

dr_raja
08-03-2010, 03:02 PM
Thanks for sharing... u r very much right

Degrian
09-26-2010, 03:43 PM
Dr Raja seems you are going follow above mentioned rules...
Nice you are really impressed...

dr_raja
09-27-2010, 05:01 PM
hmmmm

Lishoo
11-02-2010, 06:52 AM
waise kuch qualities kuch bandoo mein God gifted bhi hoti hain jaise k main apna naam leena nahn chahti...

Shaboo
11-02-2010, 08:21 AM
waise kuch qualities kuch bandoo mein God gifted bhi hoti hain jaise k main apna naam leena nahn chahti...

Thats very very good:)...like to hear something like that from a girl..kabhi gharour mein nahin anaa chahie..apne sey itna khush nahin hona chahie..kitni bhi khoubsurat ho.. our apna naam bhi leyna nahin chahie lekin lekin Shaboo ka naam leyne se tumhey koi nuksaan bhi nahin:001_rolleyes::001_tongue:

dr_raja
11-02-2010, 02:07 PM
may God bless u with more qualities......

Shaboo
11-02-2010, 03:35 PM
may God bless u with more qualities......
Amen for that:)

Degrian
11-03-2010, 09:36 AM
Amen for that:)

Sum Ameen!

Shaboo
11-03-2010, 07:05 PM
Sum Ameen!

Hmm...Hmm..me thinking and thinking...:001_unsure:..eik baat samajh mein nahin arahi hain ke tum dono(dil ke doctor our Vickey ji) kis ka zikr kar rahe ho???...Dil ke doctor ne tu mujhe hi kaha ho ka.haina? lekin Vickey ji tumhara koi bharosa nahin:sneaky2:

Degrian
11-04-2010, 10:37 AM
Hmm...Hmm..me thinking and thinking...:001_unsure:..eik baat samajh mein nahin arahi hain ke tum dono(dil ke doctor our Vickey ji) kis ka zikr kar rahe ho???...Dil ke doctor ne tu mujhe hi kaha ho ka.haina? lekin Vickey ji tumhara koi bharosa nahin:sneaky2:

haha waise joke kafi acha tha Dil k Doctor aur zikr tumhara....LOL

Shaboo
11-04-2010, 12:25 PM
haha waise joke kafi acha tha Dil k Doctor aur zikr tumhara....LOL

Hmm...is ka kya matlab ji:ohmy:...tumhey kya bata ke kaise kaise love letters dil ke doctor hammein pm mein bhejte hain:001_rolleyes:...lekin aaj kal itney busy hain naa study mein ke un ho ne khalti se love letter nahin lekin apna study note bhej dia tha:001_tongue:...waise schh naa..yeh baat ab secret hi rakhna ok..tumhari eik buri adad hain ke har baat waseeb bhai ko bata dey deyte ho:sneaky2:...kabhi idher bhi share kar lia karo ji...arey share se yaad aya it's my "last" day here so :001_rolleyes:...u want to give something:001_rolleyes:..u know something red:001_rolleyes:.....

Degrian
11-06-2010, 10:42 AM
Hmm...is ka kya matlab ji:ohmy:...tumhey kya bata ke kaise kaise love letters dil ke doctor hammein pm mein bhejte hain:001_rolleyes:...lekin aaj kal itney busy hain naa study mein ke un ho ne khalti se love letter nahin lekin apna study note bhej dia tha:001_tongue:...waise schh naa..yeh baat ab secret hi rakhna ok..tumhari eik buri adad hain ke har baat waseeb bhai ko bata dey deyte ho:sneaky2:...kabhi idher bhi share kar lia karo ji...arey share se yaad aya it's my "last" day here so :001_rolleyes:...u want to give something:001_rolleyes:..u know something red:001_rolleyes:.....

ohhhhoooo agr to yeh sach hai to Dil ke doctor ka Allah hi Hafiz hai hmmm to bsss dua hi kar sakte hain waise unhain aapke siwa koi aur nahn milli kia?
Daikhen ji ye to aapka political biyan hai waseeb to aapka supporter hai ab hamari baat kahan sunta hai waise bhi aaj kal wo kuch busy hai nahn to yahan bhi hazir ho jata...LOL

Degrian
11-06-2010, 10:53 AM
yeh baat ab secret hi rakhna ok..tumhari eik buri adad hain ke har baat waseeb bhai ko bata dey deyte ho:sneaky2:...kabhi idher bhi share kar lia karo ji...arey share se yaad aya it's my "last" day here so :001_rolleyes:...u want to give something:001_rolleyes:..u know something red:001_rolleyes:.....

Waise bhi idhar udhar ki batain larkiyon k pait mein nahn tikti...LOL
What do you mean by something red...
Eik bar aapne hi kaha tha k football mein interested hain aur main football player so aapko red card de nahn sakta kiu ke main referee nahn:P
Aur khabardar jo mere guldaste pe nazar rakhi to:cursing:
Wo main aap ko nahn de sakta...
Waise chor k kiu ja rahi hain as u said its ur last day?
hmmm se naraz hain to sorry 4 dat...

Shaboo
11-06-2010, 12:44 PM
ohhhhoooo agr to yeh sach hai to Dil ke doctor ka Allah hi Hafiz hai hmmm to bsss dua hi kar sakte hain waise unhain aapke siwa koi aur nahn milli kia?
Daikhen ji ye to aapka political biyan hai waseeb to aapka supporter hai ab hamari baat kahan sunta hai waise bhi aaj kal wo kuch busy hai nahn to yahan bhi hazir ho jata...LOL

Chalo aap ki dua ke lie ameen bol deyte hain:blushing:..arey main kaafi nahin kya ke un ko koi our milna chahie:sneaky2:..our kya matlab "agar yeh baat sach hain"?..Main jhout nahin bolti ji...kehte hain ke sab ko apna naa samjho....buri baat....waseeb ji tu aap ka chamcha hain..madad kya ki meri us ney? Agar woh bhi "India" kehte phir koi baat hoti naa:001_rolleyes:..waise Coldmine ji ka birthday 15August mein hoti hain..zara us sey tu poucho wohi wala sawaal:sneaky2:...yah nahin poucho..bechara naya hain our tumhara sawaal us ko ghoumate ka..us ko bhei darana nahin hain abhi tak..woh aaj kal meri madad kar raha hain...

Shaboo
11-06-2010, 12:49 PM
Waise bhi idhar udhar ki batain larkiyon k pait mein nahn tikti...LOL
What do you mean by something red...
Eik bar aapne hi kaha tha k football mein interested hain aur main football player so aapko red card de nahn sakta kiu ke main referee nahn:P
Aur khabardar jo mere guldaste pe nazar rakhi to:cursing:
Wo main aap ko nahn de sakta...
Waise chor k kiu ja rahi hain as u said its ur last day?
hmmm se naraz hain to sorry 4 dat...

Jaise??..Mera pait itna bara hain ke sarein batein tikti hain ji:001_unsure:..tum eik secret share kar ke tu dekho:sneaky2:..schh..referee(Professor ji) tu aaj kal Zzzzzzzz pls. us ko mat uthana..woh sotein bahout ache lagte hain:001_rolleyes:..arey aap sey tu hum pehle din sey naraaz hain tu ab tu adad hi band gei hain...acha woh guldasta mujhe deyne ko nahin hain phir pls. pls. kisi our ko dey do naa..kaha naa dhak gei houn dekh dekh ke..I want to see the "handsome Vickey" jis ko har ladki line maarti hain..hehehehe..khud kaha tha ji...

Degrian
11-08-2010, 07:00 AM
Chalo aap ki dua ke lie ameen bol deyte hain:blushing:..arey main kaafi nahin kya ke un ko koi our milna chahie:sneaky2:..our kya matlab "agar yeh baat sach hain"?..Main jhout nahin bolti ji...kehte hain ke sab ko apna naa samjho....buri baat....waseeb ji tu aap ka chamcha hain..madad kya ki meri us ney? Agar woh bhi "India" kehte phir koi baat hoti naa:001_rolleyes:..waise Coldmine ji ka birthday 15August mein hoti hain..zara us sey tu poucho wohi wala sawaal:sneaky2:...yah nahin poucho..bechara naya hain our tumhara sawaal us ko ghoumate ka..us ko bhei darana nahin hain abhi tak..woh aaj kal meri madad kar raha hain...

Yeh baat to hai per Dil ke doctor se abhi tak koi response mausool nahn hua yeh bhi to ho sakta hai ke emotions ki waja se ye happening hui ho...LOL
Coldmine ka birthday 15 August ko zaroor ho sakta hai per different timing ki waja se un ko answer pata na ho...hehe

Degrian
11-08-2010, 07:08 AM
Jaise??..Mera pait itna bara hain ke sarein batein tikti hain ji:001_unsure:..tum eik secret share kar ke tu dekho:sneaky2:..schh..referee(Professor ji) tu aaj kal Zzzzzzzz pls. us ko mat uthana..woh sotein bahout ache lagte hain:001_rolleyes:..arey aap sey tu hum pehle din sey naraaz hain tu ab tu adad hi band gei hain...acha woh guldasta mujhe deyne ko nahin hain phir pls. pls. kisi our ko dey do naa..kaha naa dhak gei houn dekh dekh ke..I want to see the "handsome Vickey" jis ko har ladki line maarti hain..hehehehe..khud kaha tha ji...

wo to aap ke bhalooo ko daikh ke pata chalta hai k aapka pait kitna bara hai....
hahaha ab hamain bhi adat si go gai hai tang karne ki...Handsome to hm hain hi per un nazroon ka kia karen jo hm pe tikki hain...LOL

Shaboo
11-08-2010, 06:37 PM
Yeh baat to hai per Dil ke doctor se abhi tak koi response mausool nahn hua yeh bhi to ho sakta hai ke emotions ki waja se ye happening hui ho...LOL
Coldmine ka birthday 15 August ko zaroor ho sakta hai per different timing ki waja se un ko answer pata na ho...hehe

Arey dil ke doctor ji zara khamous ho gaey hain tumhari wajah sey:sneaky2:...zarour jhoot bolna tha ke u more handsome!!! our ab woh bhi intezaar kar rahe hain ke akhir dekhein tu sehi ke koun sab se ziadah handsome hain our kaha naa sirf main line maar sakti houn our koi nahin maarein ka..:001_rolleyes:...ab thodi si himmat dikhao our Aunty ji ki baat mano:)..

Shaboo
11-08-2010, 06:39 PM
wo to aap ke bhalooo ko daikh ke pata chalta hai k aapka pait kitna bara hai....
hahaha ab hamain bhi adat si go gai hai tang karne ki...Handsome to hm hain hi per un nazroon ka kia karen jo hm pe tikki hain...LOL

Hmm..bhaloo ka dil toor hi dia naa:crying:..bechara udaasi mein tumhara guldasta bhi khaa lia us ney..ab aindah us ko pls. kuch naa kehna..pehle se yaha ke forum us ke beechein parey hue hain..bata nahin kya dushmani hain us sey...haan bata hain ke sareein ladkioun ko woh bahout pasandt hain our sab us ko hi khana khilati hain lekin is ka yeh nahin matlab ke tum baaki ladke us ka dil dukhae:sneaky2:...bahout afsoos ki baat hain..

Degrian
11-09-2010, 07:45 AM
Arey dil ke doctor ji zara khamous ho gaey hain tumhari wajah sey:sneaky2:...zarour jhoot bolna tha ke u more handsome!!! our ab woh bhi intezaar kar rahe hain ke akhir dekhein tu sehi ke koun sab se ziadah handsome hain our kaha naa sirf main line maar sakti houn our koi nahin maarein ka..:001_rolleyes:...ab thodi si himmat dikhao our Aunty ji ki baat mano:)..

Wo khamosh ho gai hain ya unhain khamosh karaya giya hai....
Mujh pe kiu ilzam dal rahi hain....main apni pic change to kar di hai na....
hehe

Degrian
11-09-2010, 07:48 AM
Hmm..bhaloo ka dil toor hi dia naa:crying:..bechara udaasi mein tumhara guldasta bhi khaa lia us ney..ab aindah us ko pls. kuch naa kehna..pehle se yaha ke forum us ke beechein parey hue hain..bata nahin kya dushmani hain us sey...haan bata hain ke sareein ladkioun ko woh bahout pasandt hain our sab us ko hi khana khilati hain lekin is ka yeh nahin matlab ke tum baaki ladke us ka dil dukhae:sneaky2:...bahout afsoos ki baat hain..

Daikho daikho tumhara bechara mera guldasta kha k kaise khush hai....
1 to mera guldasta kha giya uper se kaise utkheliyan kar raha hai...

Shaboo
11-11-2010, 08:10 AM
Daikho daikho tumhara bechara mera guldasta kha k kaise khush hai....
1 to mera guldasta kha giya uper se kaise utkheliyan kar raha hai...

Arey khana khakey koun khush nahin hota:001_unsure:..our waise bhi us ko red phool bahout pasandt hain..ab us pe pls. nazr naa lagao..bechara eik hi tu hain(chamkila ji ke baat) jo har waqt itna khush khelta hain is forum pe..warna jab hi dekho sab larne ko tayaar:sneaky2:..madad tu sab offer karte hain lekin jab kaam ka waqt aey tu khamoshi ho jati hain...promise bhi sab karte hain lekin jab promise pura karna ho phir woh dousri khamoushi ho jati hain our barein barein batein bhi sab ko karni ati hain jaise jhoot bolna:sneaky2:lekin jab prove karne ka waqt aye tu teesri khamoushi...hm..kitni khamousier ho gai hain:001_unsure:..zara main count kar lo phir batoun ki our aage our bhi hain...

Degrian
11-12-2010, 09:29 AM
Arey khana khakey koun khush nahin hota:001_unsure:..our waise bhi us ko red phool bahout pasandt hain..ab us pe pls. nazr naa lagao..bechara eik hi tu hain(chamkila ji ke baat) jo har waqt itna khush khelta hain is forum pe..warna jab hi dekho sab larne ko tayaar:sneaky2:..madad tu sab offer karte hain lekin jab kaam ka waqt aey tu khamoshi ho jati hain...promise bhi sab karte hain lekin jab promise pura karna ho phir woh dousri khamoushi ho jati hain our barein barein batein bhi sab ko karni ati hain jaise jhoot bolna:sneaky2:lekin jab prove karne ka waqt aye tu teesri khamoushi...hm..kitni khamousier ho gai hain:001_unsure:..zara main count kar lo phir batoun ki our aage our bhi hain...

Daikha na mera guldasta khaa k kaise hara bhara ho giya...Humari nazar usse kaise lage gi bakiyoon ka pata nahn....
Exactly yehi khami hai sab ki yahan per....
wo ehte hain na wada karna aasan hai per nibana mushkil....

Shaboo
11-12-2010, 07:03 PM
Daikha na mera guldasta khaa k kaise hara bhara ho giya...Humari nazar usse kaise lage gi bakiyoon ka pata nahn....
Exactly yehi khami hai sab ki yahan per....
wo ehte hain na wada karna aasan hai per nibana mushkil....

Arey bhei eik message hain naa..tum zara glasses ke saath lens bhi pehno bhir nazr aeyga ji..haan nazr tu lag gai hain tumhari kuonke sab ladkian us ko line jo maarti thi our tum jal jal ke kaale ho rahe dhey:001_tongue:..bilkul sehi kaha..wada karna asaan hain our nibhana mushkil yeh line yaad karlo our aindah yeh khalti mat karna:sneaky2:


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faraz_ameem
11-13-2010, 04:29 AM
wah wah kia dialogue hain...

Shaboo
11-13-2010, 09:56 AM
wah wah kia dialogue hain...

Arey is lie hi tu kehti houn ke star plus dekha karo..kuch seekhne ko miley ka ji:001_rolleyes:

faraz_ameem
11-13-2010, 03:59 PM
Lol